Authenticate, validate, yourself. You are the fairest one of all. Your competition is/ has and should always be you. You’re competing with your younger self, your pre graduate, post graduate, pre-mature, post mature self, etc. You’re the only one you have to be in competition with. The best of you. It’s you versus the maturing you. The answer will always be you. You are the fairest one of all (of you), there is none fairer then you.
This is your year to live the life you pretend on facebook, twitter and any other social sites. This is your year to be in a real happy marriage. Not just a look but a lifestyle that matches the way you’re living. Put in the work to fix what’s wrong.
You have one life, one you, one God it’s possible to do. Put all mask away refuse to wear one. That smile can be real no silent scream background. Get a confidant you can trust, may I suggest a Coach, like me. Set short term goals and long term goals and speak with your coach /confidant to keep you accountable to perform those goals. When you stumble say it, it’s ok that is a prerequisite to becoming who you want to be. When you pause, start again. Refuse to stop. Pray, yes prayer is talking to God he is your creator. Know your fears, then face them.
When you look in the mirror, don’t be so critical, be kind, and yet fix what you don’t like. Remember, it’s about becoming your best self. Not what society said you should look like or become.
Your life is not a one size fits all, neither is it a cookie cutter mold lifestyle.
Come out of your shell, if you’re shy, be more open and talk. People will speak back and listen. You have a voice use it. Don’t let anyone define you, that’s your position. There is nobody like you. You are unique. Yet the ingredient that you are is so necessary for this world, your marriage, that friendship, that family. You are needed, wanted and loved. Priceless just because of who you are.
Forgive and be forgiven, if only from God and yourself. Sometimes what we think we need from other’s we need to give to ourselves. You are not the sum of your mistakes, failings, or any other baggage you forgot to check.
Live lightly, deal with things as they occur. Live with humor, have a buffet of laughter daily. Be serious per situation, because in reality most of what you see and perceive is a farce. And to think you’re judging yourself by these things and people. When you live by other peoples standards it has a way of making your life grey, dismal if you will. Live brightly, in color. Your life has a color to it, people can see. It’s called your personality.
Get around empowering people, like minded people that support your dreams and aspirations.
If you’re lame, don’t be ashamed, just come out of your shell. Get beyond your comfort zone. Dare yourself, stretch yourself. Act it until it becomes the fit you want.
Live authentically, be genuine, be you. Do not give anyone power of attorney in your life while you’re still capable to control it.
Ask yourself in 2012, as the New Year is ushering in the new and improved version of you.
Let your friends know I’m not ‘trying to be better then you, I’m becoming better for you.
You have one life, one you, one God it’s possible to do.
Mirror, Mirror, on the wall. who is the fairest one of all? In this view it’s only you.
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