Have A Sexcessful And Sextacular Year

 Yes, you read it right,  this is a blog for married couples ,relationships.  I know what some of you are thinking ,she loves to talk about sex  and you’re right.  I’m legal, married and very sensual.  Yes I’m still saved and my husband is still a man of God. Let’s be real , they don’t really mention it in church, it’s like you have to go underground to talk about it. When you’re home it comes up after the bills, after the kids, after dinner, after cleaning, after sports and news.  Lights out and ok now we can touch each other late at night  like an afterthought.  Don’t take too long because we have to get back to the more important things on tomorrow.  When you do talk about it with your friends, afterwards you feel guilty like you talked about something dirty.  Not I, because it is part of my nature and I’m a very sensual person. I’m grown and married , not to mention in my prime .  

Most often during marriage at some point your sex life begins to wean. There are a myriad of reasons why, busy lifestyles,  kids , jobs, career, money woes, health,  etc, becoming a routine. So let’s prioritize it again.  MzLoveviewz says It’s Ok2sexAgain .

I believe married people should have the best time of their lives.  Especially sexually, that is our language of love to each other.  It is what God ordained for a man and a woman.

Sexcessful  ,meaning more intimacy, sex and lovemaking then last year. 

Some couples leave their zip codes to spice it up.  They go on a trip, to the Caribbean or Poconos, cruise,etc. But once they get back to their zip code back in the little box it goes. To the contrary, bring it on.

Whatever excuses you’ve been using to not engage, drop them.  Now there is no set time frame for frequency, some like it more than others.  What is your norm, just increase it and it will be conducive to your marriage. When making love you become one, that is the closest you can become to your spouse.

Be spontaneous, be intriguing, playful, flirty and daring. Tease, scream, pant , be erotic, romantic. Downright naughty.

 Do you have any inhibitions?  If you do, this is the year to do away with them.  You’re going to be sexcessful in 2012, because we ‘re going to delve.

Who is the initiator ?  Time for you to reverse the roles.

 Do you make noise? (screams) ughhhh  Silent lovemaking is for turtles, get out of your shell.

 Obviously we have more to talk about so there will be a 2nd part to this.  

Mmmm, yes I will call it positions, places and toys oh my.   It’s going to be Sextacular!

 

 

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4 thoughts on “Have A Sexcessful And Sextacular Year

  1. Hey Audrey, one of my favorites things is putting my wife TO BED!! Yes, tucked in, under the covers, out like a light….I don’t know which is more satisfying, listening to her ohhhhhhhhhh or watching her zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz, I love’em both…. And you are 100% correct. There shouldn’t be any inhibitions for couple when it comes to pleasing each other…We have to keep the wood on the fire to keep the “house” warm…..Great post!!!! Kim would agree, but she “resting comfortably” right now.

    • Way to go Chris, celebrate your marriage with loving action to the one you love. Enjoy the Darling Menu. We appreciate your comments. Thanks for your support.

  2. A great post under the tag God. I believe that a strong positive sexual relationship is very important to a relationship or marriage that is going anywhere. To be more accurate, I believe that sexual compatibility is the key, in other words, you both have the same degree of interest in sex, and of course that may be high or low, may be active or subtle, may be frequent or infrequent. As long as you are compatible, that is the answer. And this is part of God’s plan and purpose for us, to experience relationship with others, for in the deepest of relationships you come to relationship with yourslef, and through that your relationship with God, who is your source and your very being, as He is for the partner in your relationship.

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