The bond you share with your mate is unlike any other bond, it goes to the core of your soul. Because you become one with them sexually. That creates an unmatched relationship with any other creature. The bible calls it to know them.
This isn’t the same kind of marriage you grew up on. Today’s marriages and relationships have to deal with attention pulling from all areas, social media, twitter, Facebook, videos, TV, movies. To keep your relationship fresh, and paramount, you do have to present your best self. Take a look in the mirror would you date you. Is there something you want to improve on, weight, body whatever to give them your best self. Because we are inundated with sex,sex, sex,everywhere which in turn is a spirit of temptation.
I stay in a sexy mind-set most of the time because I’m sensual. I have to give myself props for this because I kept it contained for one man all these years. Not that I didn’t have temptation or the opportunity but it’s a choice and I have power over that. So say what you want, It works for me. I love being a woman and now that I’m at this age it has increased to the 10th power! I love finding new ways to love my husband.
Keep an open mind ladies especially, update your knowledge and beliefs about sex. Picture if you will a person that is paralyzed or handicapped in a way that does not allow them to have sex in the “normal” way. Yet they want to still be loved and be lov.ing to their partner so they have to come up with other ways to have that intimacy. That may include performing orally, or with toys, or just touching certain parts of the body. They have to become in tune with their skin, senses, and mind-set. Now that you pictured it , doesn’t that do away with being squeamish, or saying something is vulgar, or nasty. Some of you may even say well my partner is not handicapped so we can indulge the regular way. That is true but if you have a partner that desires more and/or to bring another level to your intimacy. Some of us received our information about sex from our upbringing, church, peers, and a lot of it was either wrong or outdated. That is why my opinion is a married couple should be the happiest of all. Because you have that trust between you and your partner to explore and to make it all about each other’s pleasure. The goal should be to enrich the relationship sexually and otherwise. Like “Alice and Wonderland go down the rabbit hole” You become aware.
Warning do not attempt any of this, if you have not taken care of your partners emotional needs. Meeting each other’s emotional needs is the purpose of marriage. Neglect of their emotional needs is the key reason for divorce .
I have so much to share we have to make a part three.
On the next article we will get to the juicy part, ( no pun intended ) ok maybe a little.