Tag Archive | Advice

Keep em Open!

Mmmm, Here’s a little tantilizing tidbit to make it hotter! I know what you heard, and how we get settled in doing things the same ole way. Spice it up, switch it up , Mmmmm, come a little closer I tell you how. Ssshh c’mere closer, ok this is the secret.

While lovemaking Keep Your Eyes Open! Ta daa that’s it. Hey don’t knock it, try it . Especially us ladies with our insecurities with our bodies , we insist on lights off , eyes closed. Stop! Relax he is not focused on your fat pockets or this or that. Most men are visuals so keep the view  on you , it will enhance his feelings of you. Try it , may seem awkward at first because we are so used to doing it the other way .   Baby, keep those eyes open, keep the lights on and take your time.   Mmm, look into their eyes as the passion is unleashed and the only vision they have is you.   Guarantee they will be so excited and can’t stop thinking of you . Tell your mate the new rules it will be fun and exciting and  Sextacular !!!

Love’s Signature Is The Kiss

  Kissing is like the licking of the envelope for love, it seals it. Each person kiss is different, is so sensual and extremely intimate. Do you kiss while making love? You may think that is a silly question,  but it’s not. Couples, remember when you were dating, you talked a lot  then came the kiss.  It was exciting, sexy, fun, flirty. Now it seems like an old acquaintance, it seems that the longer you’re in a relationship, that’s the first thing to go. It happens subtly, the novelty wears off the busier we are and the monotony sets in. Life begins to get so hurried that in the relationship things that were first begins to take a back seat . We start to bump lips, I call it or peck and that is not a signature( lol) that is like writing your initials.  Kissing is extremely intimate, just as intimate if not more than sex. Case in point ex: Prostitutes refuse to kiss their John’s because of the emotional intimacy of the act.  So couples be very vigilant , reflect back on how you two romanced each other, and go back to those basic steps.  Take the time to french kiss each other, it takes a few seconds but it will add time to your relationship keeping it fresh and active. Try to be different each time , change it up, you know bite the lip, flick the tongue , and it doesn’t have to be on the mouth all the time.  Kiss on the neck, lower, higher, just keep kissing, the passion will stay active.  If you realize you stopped and you got into a routine of bump kissing, shock them the next time you give them a kiss make it long and passionate. You don’t want to have them craving for something that is already in the house. The worst thing is to find your self with a roommate who you occasionally have sex with. I like to say keep the (y) in sexy otherwise it’s just sex.   Love’s signature is the kiss , so start signing !

Talking Utensils: Table For 2-Silence For Both

   I went out to dinner with hubby, we enjoyed our meal and conversed.  We looked over the room and
noticed 3 couples in the dining room that were not talking at all through their meal.  I just wanted to go over to that table and hand my card and say call me, my hubby wouldn’t let me.    When your relationship gets to this stage there are major problems.   Not saying it’s to late ,but this is the time to get help.

Our lives are extremely busy and we are inundated with so many things vying for our attention.  We must make sure when we get with our significant other, you need to be present in every sense of the word.  Take off your overcoat of the job, stress, etc and get together and bond. Power up if you will , strengthen each other because jobs etc have a way of depleting you.  You have to replenish each other, pour into each other.

I must interject my word In2MeC, because you need to get into your partner,
immerse yourself in their presence. How do you do that? Ask your self what
attracted you to this person, what you would miss if they were out of your
life.  Let them know that they matter.  Don’t have anything to say, say what you
see.  Baby I like what you wearing today. That color really lights up your
complexion. Out of all the people in this room, I’m glad I’m with you etc. Sounds corny but you know you want to hear it . Call me dramatic whatever,  what you can’t call me is single lol.  Not talking is something that subtly creeps into your relationship it just doesn’t abruptly stop.  You must be alert and aware when silent changes occur in your relationship.  Keep it active and alive to stop the monotony from setting in.

On your mark start talking to each other, about  new interesting things you like mutually and individually.

MzLoveViews was stopped this time but the next couple may not be
so lucky.   Tell me, how you keep your relationship alive and relevant to each
other.