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Loving Myself It’s Contagious !

Loving myself is contagious, because when I love me you will receive it and love me too!
1st full week of my 90 days weight loss get fit Challenge.
Who am I challenging? Myself, to bring my best self forward. I want to be healthy and fit , that means exercising and eating right.
Being sexy , well that is just what I am, nobody defines that for me but me. Its confidence, happy about myself , taking care of myself,not being critical of myself. Sure I mess up but then I continue on striving to do better.
 
As a married woman I believe that you should continue to strive to maintain your visual for your husband. Give him something to think about, not shy at all that is my man. I have to bring it each and every time. For me staying within the same weight I was when I dated him. Now I’m 30 pounds over that weight and that alone causes me to get back to where I want to be. I want to get back there I felt good at that weight, I liked the way my clothes fit at that weight. So that is where I’m headed. I was at home on the treadmill when Beyonce song came on Love on Top. As I began to jog a little faster to the beat I began to listen to the words and one verse says
“Baby it’s you.You’re the one I love.You’re the one I need.You’re the only one I see.Come on baby it’s you. You’re the one that gives your all.You’re the one I can always call.When I need you make everything stop.
Finally you put my love on top.”
 
It resonated with me ,that yes it’s me, I need to put my love on top for myself . Oh yes my husband well there is no if and but’s about that . After God I should be right there.  But until I do it, that is when it counts. So I’m getting fit for me putting that self-love on top, once and for all like Beyonce sings Finally!

Loving myself it’s contagious!

1st week, happy to report I’ve lost 8 pounds, and a lot of negative thinking.

Not to late to join me  C’mon!

30 Years- To God Be The Glory!

  We were so elated to celebrate our 30th year of marriage.  If you count the years we  dated , its longer than that.  We’ve been asked by many people , what’s your secret, the  answer sounds so cliché, ” If the LORD had not been on our side— let Israel say—”Psalm 124v1 (let Carl and Audrey say). 

The Lord truly has been the glue that kept us together, not just in name but inflamed with active love.  Both of us having a personal relationship with God, coupled with our love and patience  toward each other kept us anchored.  Of course there were countless times that we wanted to throw our hands up, but we talked and prayed and realized that was the easy way out.  There’s a situation, a story, or myriad of things in every relationship, that can cause it to end. Doesn’t mean it should or does.   Don’t take our story out of context, one part does not tell the whole story.   If you were not present and privy,  at the beginning and throughout our relationship, it would be hard to understand that a crisis of infidelity could not define our relationship.   The bible state’s infidelity is a reason for divorce,  it doesn’t say it had to be.   The choice was mine’s  alone and it was an easy choice for me than and now.     How can I say that , because aside from that , I  had no other valid, conceivable issue against my husband.  He was and is a wonderful husband to me.  You know that song that Jennifer Holiday sings and that verse , my life with him uttered those words literally . He is the best thing I ever had and there was no way, (cue music) I was living without him.   The defining part was he sang it first. ( I was expecting  Beyoncé  and dem to float out on a cloud and sing “we are a family” )  

     I know he is the one God ordained for me ,  because having my own relationship with God allowed me to be compassionate for  this Man of God .  I witnessed how he was so broken spiritually because he sinned against God , and broke a vow to his wife .   Although I was devastated, God used me to somehow minister to my husband in his fallen state.   I knew that ,even if we never repaired our relationship he was still a soul and he needed someone to intercede for him at that time.  Our love was stronger, than what came against it.  That was something meant for our demise, yet it gave us new life .   It allowed us to purposely choose each other again.  Nobody but God can do what he did for us. 

     So let it be no secret , put God as the head and the foundation of your marriage  and you can be sure the storms of life will beat against your  relationship , but with God on board your anchor will hold.  

(Cue the organ player, I need an usher circle  “breaks out in a praise dance”)