I went out to dinner with hubby, we enjoyed our meal and conversed. We looked over the room and
noticed 3 couples in the dining room that were not talking at all through their meal. I just wanted to go over to that table and hand my card and say call me, my hubby wouldn’t let me. When your relationship gets to this stage there are major problems. Not saying it’s to late ,but this is the time to get help.
Our lives are extremely busy and we are inundated with so many things vying for our attention. We must make sure when we get with our significant other, you need to be present in every sense of the word. Take off your overcoat of the job, stress, etc and get together and bond. Power up if you will , strengthen each other because jobs etc have a way of depleting you. You have to replenish each other, pour into each other.
I must interject my word In2MeC, because you need to get into your partner,
immerse yourself in their presence. How do you do that? Ask your self what
attracted you to this person, what you would miss if they were out of your
life. Let them know that they matter. Don’t have anything to say, say what you
see. Baby I like what you wearing today. That color really lights up your
complexion. Out of all the people in this room, I’m glad I’m with you etc. Sounds corny but you know you want to hear it . Call me dramatic whatever, what you can’t call me is single lol. Not talking is something that subtly creeps into your relationship it just doesn’t abruptly stop. You must be alert and aware when silent changes occur in your relationship. Keep it active and alive to stop the monotony from setting in.
On your mark start talking to each other, about new interesting things you like mutually and individually.
MzLoveViews was stopped this time but the next couple may not be
so lucky. Tell me, how you keep your relationship alive and relevant to each