Variety is the key, try not to get into a routine. This can be hard with our busy lives but we have to be vigilant so we can be spontaneous.
Now every time you indulge it doesn’t have to be romantic . Men sometime want to forego the romance and go for the quickie, the freaky, the wild yet all the time keep the respect and loving bond.
This is the Darling Menu , everything you can get from your darling.
Take advantage of his morning salute.
Kiss from head to toe , get lost along the way.
When no one else is home declare your house a nudist camp and do everything in the nude together.
Have dessert on them like a plate.
Blindfold and tie your mate up.
Video tape your sexcapades than watch and enjoy then erase.
Go on a sexual fast, no sex only touch and arousal touch for 10-20-30 days. Then come back together for a renewed heightened experience. If you do decide to do this you must pick up in the other areas, massage, spa time at home or away, touching to arousal but not indulging. Talking sexy, sexting, little gifts, immersing yourself in loving each other,
Don’t just rekindle, do some new things.
When was the last time you took a shower together?
How about a bubble bath, if you can’t fit in your tub google a hotel that has a Jacuzzi.
Where there is a desire, than you have fuel for the fire.
Midnight picnic in your home.
Try different positions, see how limber you are.
Do it now while you can still do the positions.
Tell your mate exactly what you want, need, if they don’t know tell them verbatim. Show and tell them.
What are your fantasies, your imagination for your intimacy?
Role play, dress up, play truth or dare in the bedroom.
Tie up and blind fold.
Perform a strip tease, lap dance for your mate
Have fun be childlike with adult freedom.
It’s ok that is your partner, you’re adults, enjoy each other.
Change your roles if you’re a professional in your career, when you come home totally relax, switch gears.
Become playful, flirty, and romantic. If you’re use to being the initiator, relax it’s time for your mate to take charge.
I have much more recipes on the menu but I will save for other sextacular articles.
My basis for this article is to encourage you to enjoy one another. Let nothing or no one hinder you from fulfilling your partners desires, and loving them to best of your ability.
It has nothing to do with either you do it or someone else will, that may be true. We are not animals that act on instinct. That is a choice. Put all that energy into your relationship and you will have a Sexcessful and Sextacular year and life. This is all conducive to a happier relationship and a happier you. Which makes it Sexcellent