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Home ________ Home! (pt. 1)

Fill in the blank , because for some  when they think of home it’s not “Home Sweet Home! It’s more like Home Complaining home, Home Pressure Pot Home,
Home Tapout Home, Home Wipeout Home.  Ok you get the picture. When your mate comes home, they should come home to a clean house, a house with all of their comforts. When they walk in the door and if you are there, greet them, hug, kiss them. They have been at work all day , dealing with all kinds of issues, bosses, catty coworkers, deals went wrong or times when things went good.  The project at work was successful,  and they want to be celebrated at home.  They want praise, and that’s excellent honey.   Some people come home and they have all of those luxurious comforts, beautiful home , lavishly furnished, immaculate upkeep.  Yet when they walk in the door, they can’t relax there because of “don’t eat in the living room” ,” don’t eat that snack, I’m making dinner”  or “those snacks are for the kids”.  To many restrictions in your house, is making your house not a home.   It doesn’t matter if they used the glass without a coaster.  It doesn’t matter if they sat in the living room that looks like a showroom.  Let them relax.

Keep posted  I have a part 2, watch the temperature change in your house from cold to cozy.

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Keep em Open!

Mmmm, Here’s a little tantilizing tidbit to make it hotter! I know what you heard, and how we get settled in doing things the same ole way. Spice it up, switch it up , Mmmmm, come a little closer I tell you how. Ssshh c’mere closer, ok this is the secret.

While lovemaking Keep Your Eyes Open! Ta daa that’s it. Hey don’t knock it, try it . Especially us ladies with our insecurities with our bodies , we insist on lights off , eyes closed. Stop! Relax he is not focused on your fat pockets or this or that. Most men are visuals so keep the view  on you , it will enhance his feelings of you. Try it , may seem awkward at first because we are so used to doing it the other way .   Baby, keep those eyes open, keep the lights on and take your time.   Mmm, look into their eyes as the passion is unleashed and the only vision they have is you.   Guarantee they will be so excited and can’t stop thinking of you . Tell your mate the new rules it will be fun and exciting and  Sextacular !!!

Talking Utensils: Table For 2-Silence For Both

   I went out to dinner with hubby, we enjoyed our meal and conversed.  We looked over the room and
noticed 3 couples in the dining room that were not talking at all through their meal.  I just wanted to go over to that table and hand my card and say call me, my hubby wouldn’t let me.    When your relationship gets to this stage there are major problems.   Not saying it’s to late ,but this is the time to get help.

Our lives are extremely busy and we are inundated with so many things vying for our attention.  We must make sure when we get with our significant other, you need to be present in every sense of the word.  Take off your overcoat of the job, stress, etc and get together and bond. Power up if you will , strengthen each other because jobs etc have a way of depleting you.  You have to replenish each other, pour into each other.

I must interject my word In2MeC, because you need to get into your partner,
immerse yourself in their presence. How do you do that? Ask your self what
attracted you to this person, what you would miss if they were out of your
life.  Let them know that they matter.  Don’t have anything to say, say what you
see.  Baby I like what you wearing today. That color really lights up your
complexion. Out of all the people in this room, I’m glad I’m with you etc. Sounds corny but you know you want to hear it . Call me dramatic whatever,  what you can’t call me is single lol.  Not talking is something that subtly creeps into your relationship it just doesn’t abruptly stop.  You must be alert and aware when silent changes occur in your relationship.  Keep it active and alive to stop the monotony from setting in.

On your mark start talking to each other, about  new interesting things you like mutually and individually.

MzLoveViews was stopped this time but the next couple may not be
so lucky.   Tell me, how you keep your relationship alive and relevant to each
other.