Yes, you read it right, this is a blog for married couples ,relationships. I know what some of you are thinking ,she loves to talk about sex and you’re right. I’m legal, married and very sensual. Yes I’m still saved and my husband is still a man of God. Let’s be real , they don’t really mention it in church, it’s like you have to go underground to talk about it. When you’re home it comes up after the bills, after the kids, after dinner, after cleaning, after sports and news. Lights out and ok now we can touch each other late at night like an afterthought. Don’t take too long because we have to get back to the more important things on tomorrow. When you do talk about it with your friends, afterwards you feel guilty like you talked about something dirty. Not I, because it is part of my nature and I’m a very sensual person. I’m grown and married , not to mention in my prime .
Most often during marriage at some point your sex life begins to wean. There are a myriad of reasons why, busy lifestyles, kids , jobs, career, money woes, health, etc, becoming a routine. So let’s prioritize it again. MzLoveviewz says It’s Ok2sexAgain .
I believe married people should have the best time of their lives. Especially sexually, that is our language of love to each other. It is what God ordained for a man and a woman.
Sexcessful ,meaning more intimacy, sex and lovemaking then last year.
Some couples leave their zip codes to spice it up. They go on a trip, to the Caribbean or Poconos, cruise,etc. But once they get back to their zip code back in the little box it goes. To the contrary, bring it on.
Whatever excuses you’ve been using to not engage, drop them. Now there is no set time frame for frequency, some like it more than others. What is your norm, just increase it and it will be conducive to your marriage. When making love you become one, that is the closest you can become to your spouse.
Be spontaneous, be intriguing, playful, flirty and daring. Tease, scream, pant , be erotic, romantic. Downright naughty.
Do you have any inhibitions? If you do, this is the year to do away with them. You’re going to be sexcessful in 2012, because we ‘re going to delve.
Who is the initiator ? Time for you to reverse the roles.
Do you make noise? (screams) ughhhh Silent lovemaking is for turtles, get out of your shell.
Obviously we have more to talk about so there will be a 2nd part to this.
Mmmm, yes I will call it positions, places and toys oh my. It’s going to be Sextacular!