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Have A Sexcessful And Sextacular New Year! pt 3

 Welcome to the Pleasuredom!

Variety is the key, try not to get into a routine. This can be hard with our busy lives but we have to  be vigilant so we can be spontaneous.

Now every time you indulge it doesn’t have to be romantic . Men sometime want to forego the romance and go for the quickie, the freaky, the wild yet all the time keep the respect and loving bond.

This is the Darling Menu , everything you can get from your darling.

Take advantage of his morning salute.

Kiss from head to toe , get lost along the way.

When no one else is home declare your house a nudist camp and do everything in the nude together.

Have dessert on them like a plate.

Blindfold and tie your mate up.

Video tape your sexcapades than watch and enjoy then erase.

Go on a sexual fast, no sex only touch and arousal touch for 10-20-30 days. Then come back together for a renewed heightened experience.   If you do decide to do this you must pick up in the other areas, massage, spa time at home or away, touching to arousal but not indulging. Talking sexy, sexting, little gifts, immersing yourself in loving each other,

Don’t just rekindle, do some new things.

When was the last time you took a shower together?

How about a bubble bath, if you can’t fit in your tub google a hotel that has a Jacuzzi.

Where there is a desire, than you have fuel for the fire.

Midnight picnic in your home.

Try different positions, see how limber you are.

Do it now while you can still do the positions.

Tell your mate exactly what you want, need, if they don’t know tell them verbatim. Show and tell them.

What are your fantasies, your imagination for your intimacy?

Role play, dress up, play truth or dare in the bedroom.

Tie up and blind fold.

Perform a strip tease, lap dance for your mate

Have fun be childlike with adult freedom.

It’s ok that is your partner, you’re adults, enjoy each other.

Change your roles if you’re a professional in your career, when you come home totally relax, switch gears.

Become playful, flirty, and romantic. If you’re use to being the initiator, relax it’s time for your mate to take charge.

I have much more recipes on the menu but I will save for other sextacular articles.

My basis for this article is to encourage you to enjoy one another. Let nothing or no one hinder you from fulfilling your partners desires, and loving them to best of your ability.

It has nothing to do with either you do it or someone else will, that may be true. We are not animals that act on instinct. That is a choice. Put all that energy into your relationship and you will have a  Sexcessful and Sextacular  year and life. This is all conducive to a happier relationship and a happier you. Which makes it Sexcellent

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Keep em Open!

Mmmm, Here’s a little tantilizing tidbit to make it hotter! I know what you heard, and how we get settled in doing things the same ole way. Spice it up, switch it up , Mmmmm, come a little closer I tell you how. Ssshh c’mere closer, ok this is the secret.

While lovemaking Keep Your Eyes Open! Ta daa that’s it. Hey don’t knock it, try it . Especially us ladies with our insecurities with our bodies , we insist on lights off , eyes closed. Stop! Relax he is not focused on your fat pockets or this or that. Most men are visuals so keep the view  on you , it will enhance his feelings of you. Try it , may seem awkward at first because we are so used to doing it the other way .   Baby, keep those eyes open, keep the lights on and take your time.   Mmm, look into their eyes as the passion is unleashed and the only vision they have is you.   Guarantee they will be so excited and can’t stop thinking of you . Tell your mate the new rules it will be fun and exciting and  Sextacular !!!