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Have A Sexcessful And Sextacular New Year! pt 3

 Welcome to the Pleasuredom!

Variety is the key, try not to get into a routine. This can be hard with our busy lives but we have to  be vigilant so we can be spontaneous.

Now every time you indulge it doesn’t have to be romantic . Men sometime want to forego the romance and go for the quickie, the freaky, the wild yet all the time keep the respect and loving bond.

This is the Darling Menu , everything you can get from your darling.

Take advantage of his morning salute.

Kiss from head to toe , get lost along the way.

When no one else is home declare your house a nudist camp and do everything in the nude together.

Have dessert on them like a plate.

Blindfold and tie your mate up.

Video tape your sexcapades than watch and enjoy then erase.

Go on a sexual fast, no sex only touch and arousal touch for 10-20-30 days. Then come back together for a renewed heightened experience.   If you do decide to do this you must pick up in the other areas, massage, spa time at home or away, touching to arousal but not indulging. Talking sexy, sexting, little gifts, immersing yourself in loving each other,

Don’t just rekindle, do some new things.

When was the last time you took a shower together?

How about a bubble bath, if you can’t fit in your tub google a hotel that has a Jacuzzi.

Where there is a desire, than you have fuel for the fire.

Midnight picnic in your home.

Try different positions, see how limber you are.

Do it now while you can still do the positions.

Tell your mate exactly what you want, need, if they don’t know tell them verbatim. Show and tell them.

What are your fantasies, your imagination for your intimacy?

Role play, dress up, play truth or dare in the bedroom.

Tie up and blind fold.

Perform a strip tease, lap dance for your mate

Have fun be childlike with adult freedom.

It’s ok that is your partner, you’re adults, enjoy each other.

Change your roles if you’re a professional in your career, when you come home totally relax, switch gears.

Become playful, flirty, and romantic. If you’re use to being the initiator, relax it’s time for your mate to take charge.

I have much more recipes on the menu but I will save for other sextacular articles.

My basis for this article is to encourage you to enjoy one another. Let nothing or no one hinder you from fulfilling your partners desires, and loving them to best of your ability.

It has nothing to do with either you do it or someone else will, that may be true. We are not animals that act on instinct. That is a choice. Put all that energy into your relationship and you will have a  Sexcessful and Sextacular  year and life. This is all conducive to a happier relationship and a happier you. Which makes it Sexcellent

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Have A Sexcessful And Sextacular Year

 Yes, you read it right,  this is a blog for married couples ,relationships.  I know what some of you are thinking ,she loves to talk about sex  and you’re right.  I’m legal, married and very sensual.  Yes I’m still saved and my husband is still a man of God. Let’s be real , they don’t really mention it in church, it’s like you have to go underground to talk about it. When you’re home it comes up after the bills, after the kids, after dinner, after cleaning, after sports and news.  Lights out and ok now we can touch each other late at night  like an afterthought.  Don’t take too long because we have to get back to the more important things on tomorrow.  When you do talk about it with your friends, afterwards you feel guilty like you talked about something dirty.  Not I, because it is part of my nature and I’m a very sensual person. I’m grown and married , not to mention in my prime .  

Most often during marriage at some point your sex life begins to wean. There are a myriad of reasons why, busy lifestyles,  kids , jobs, career, money woes, health,  etc, becoming a routine. So let’s prioritize it again.  MzLoveviewz says It’s Ok2sexAgain .

I believe married people should have the best time of their lives.  Especially sexually, that is our language of love to each other.  It is what God ordained for a man and a woman.

Sexcessful  ,meaning more intimacy, sex and lovemaking then last year. 

Some couples leave their zip codes to spice it up.  They go on a trip, to the Caribbean or Poconos, cruise,etc. But once they get back to their zip code back in the little box it goes. To the contrary, bring it on.

Whatever excuses you’ve been using to not engage, drop them.  Now there is no set time frame for frequency, some like it more than others.  What is your norm, just increase it and it will be conducive to your marriage. When making love you become one, that is the closest you can become to your spouse.

Be spontaneous, be intriguing, playful, flirty and daring. Tease, scream, pant , be erotic, romantic. Downright naughty.

 Do you have any inhibitions?  If you do, this is the year to do away with them.  You’re going to be sexcessful in 2012, because we ‘re going to delve.

Who is the initiator ?  Time for you to reverse the roles.

 Do you make noise? (screams) ughhhh  Silent lovemaking is for turtles, get out of your shell.

 Obviously we have more to talk about so there will be a 2nd part to this.  

Mmmm, yes I will call it positions, places and toys oh my.   It’s going to be Sextacular!

 

 

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Intimacy Define It And Live It!

The Webster’s Dictionary defines Intimacy as a state of being intimate:
familiarity: something of a personal nature
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MzLoveViewz defines Intimacy, a word
that is clothed in a privacy of a being in a naked way. MzLoveViewz spelling of
the word defines it totally- In2MeC

I know myself intimately, and my husband knows me intimately, and
vice -versa. Before anyone defines you define your self. How can he know me,
unless I’m aware of myself.  How do you
find out about yourself?  You explore all
regions. Spiritually, emotionally, intellectually, physically, fears,
ambitions, etc.  Intimacy is of your
private thoughts.  Your familiarity  that very few should know.

Do you know your partner, do you know what excites them how/why.
Find new ways to excite them, love them intrigue them. Explore together.

Relax, let go of all
those hang-ups you learned or experienced that creates a gulf between you and
your mate. Beliefs about things can be updated. Oops , no I did not do a typo,
MzLoveViewz  quote’s – “beliefs about
things can be updated/changed , added or subtracted or replaced.”

Save the spelling of In2MeC that is
from the MzLoveViewz  Personal Jargon
Dictionary
.  There is more to learn.