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My Blog Has A Heartbeat

I read an awesome blog post today, https://outsideair.wordpress.com/2012/03/22/what-blogging-has-tought-me/ that asked the question, “why do you blog?  This is my answer.

I’m a woman and like most woman I’m an over thinker.  I analyze ,I dissect, I want to know the chronological, sequence of events. Who said what, what did you say.  I’m not nosy or a busy body, a blog is open to everyone, if I stop by to read I will let you know I was there. My opinion is this or that. Does anyone hear me , does anyone care.  I want to matter , I want to help. This is my excess, my storage place for my thoughts , this is my Icloud yet it can be read aloud. I read to explore, I write to soar, allowing my thoughts to fly, to be birthed, to land on earth a chance to be heard around the universe.  A blog is a diary with a heartbeat, a voice with and echo, an echo that gets a response.  Hello is anybody out there, does anyone hear me.  We all have stories, and some that are relating, encouraging, inspiring. engaging.  I want to reach someone who feels what I felt.  If I can help somebody along this way then my blogging is not in vain. I want to let them know, It’s ok to love again, believe again, try again, start again, forgive again, trust again.   Don’t shut down, shut out, feel alienated, you are not what happen to you. You’re more than that , change your perspective, change how you perceive it and you can change your life. Start again, try something you’ve never tried before, this is your one life go for it. I recommend blogging to my clients, to any introvert, to anyone that is going through something painful, something challenging, something wonderful, something praiseworthy.

Blog anonymously, blog with a pseudo but by all means blog. Blogging empowers you.

  • Write a sentence
  •  A quote
  •  Post a picture
  • Post a thought
  • A dream
  • A recipe 
  • Be inspiring
  • Be encouraging
  • Be informative

 Be aware  because somebody is out there.

To my fellow bloggers, you are a strong supportive community,I salute you.  You have enlarged my world, my thoughts, my happiness. You’re my BFF in my head, you’re the friends I always wanted but never had.  I would have never met you, most likely passed you on the street never looking up until your blog.

  • You liked my post
  •  Commented
  •  Nominated
  • Validated
  • Encouraged
  • Befriended

 I’m grateful, I’m blessed because you stopped by.  Encourage a blogger today, like their post, take the time to comment, because when you do, it feels awesome when a blogger gives a comment.  Follow a blogger today to encourage them, set up an email just for joining blogs. You will be randomly giving someone a smile ,a  hug an encouragement that cost nothing yet it’s priceless.   It’s reciprocal, reaping, sowing, its bestowing, beneficial, anyway you look at it.  You learn, share, receive, give, explore, travel without leaving your house. You learn about different cultures, opinions, education, recipes, gifts, photography, ideologies theology.  Relationships, communities, companies, brands. voices.  It’s a whole new world. I blog because I’m happy, I blog because I have something to say, I want to encourage , inspire, help, heal, make someone smile, happy. I blog because I can.  There is a possibility that some will not like it, some will even criticize, why would they I don’t know.  Don’t let anyone silence your voice written or verbally. You’re unique, and that is the flavor that is missing, so share yourself, your world, your thoughts with us.  Be like a candle because when you share and give light to others it takes nothing away from you. I believe it adds to you in countless, marvelous ways enriching your life. To my fellow bloggers, thank you for your courage to post, educate, inspire, entertain and share your world.  

Let’s keep this going, tell me why you blog? 

Let me know you came by please,  like this post, comment, as you can see I left the light on.

Mirror Mirror On The Wall

Authenticate, validate, yourself. You are the fairest one of all.   Your competition is/ has and should always be you.  You’re competing with your younger self, your pre graduate, post graduate, pre-mature, post mature self, etc. You’re the only one you have to be in competition with. The best of you. It’s you versus the maturing you. The answer will always be you. You are the fairest one of all (of you), there is none fairer then you.

This is your year to live the life you pretend on facebook, twitter and any other social sites. This is your year to be in a real happy marriage. Not just a look but a lifestyle that matches the way you’re living.  Put in the work to fix what’s wrong.

You have one life, one you, one God it’s possible to do.  Put all mask away refuse to wear one.  That smile can be real no silent scream background. Get a confidant you can trust, may I suggest a Coach, like me. Set short term goals and long term goals and speak with your coach /confidant to keep you accountable to perform those goals. When you stumble say it, it’s ok that is a prerequisite to becoming who you want to be. When you pause, start again. Refuse to stop.  Pray, yes prayer is talking to God he is your creator. Know your fears, then face them.

When you look in the mirror, don’t be so critical, be kind, and yet fix what you don’t like.  Remember, it’s about becoming your best self. Not what society said you should look like or become.

Your life is not a one size fits all, neither is it a cookie cutter mold lifestyle.

Come out of your shell, if you’re shy, be more open and talk. People will speak back and listen. You have a voice use it. Don’t let anyone define you, that’s your position. There is nobody like youYou are unique.  Yet the ingredient that you are is so necessary for this world, your marriage, that friendship, that family.  You are needed, wanted and loved.  Priceless just because of who you are.

Forgive and be forgiven, if only from God and yourself.   Sometimes what we think we need from other’s we need to give to ourselves.  You are not the sum of your mistakes, failings, or any other baggage you forgot to check.

Live lightly, deal with things as they occur. Live with humor, have a buffet of laughter daily.  Be serious per situation, because in reality most of what you see and perceive is a farce.  And to think you’re judging yourself by these things and people.  When you live by other peoples standards it has a way of making your life grey, dismal if you will.  Live brightly, in color.  Your life has a color to it, people can see. It’s called your personality.

Get around empowering people, like minded people that support your dreams and aspirations.

If you’re lame, don’t be ashamed, just come out of your shell.  Get beyond your comfort zone.  Dare yourself, stretch yourself.  Act it until it becomes the fit you want.

Live authentically, be genuine, be you. Do not give anyone power of attorney in your life while you’re still capable to control it.

Ask yourself in 2012, as the New Year is ushering in the new and improved version of you.

Let your friends know I’m not ‘trying to be better then you, I’m becoming better for you.

You have one life, one you, one God it’s possible to do.

Mirror, Mirror, on the wall. who is the fairest one of all?  In this view it’s only you.


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